I feel like a musician releasing a double album - we had two big days in a row, and I'm combining them into one post. Unfortunately, just like the double album, the combination of the two posts will not be as good as if the two posts had been released separately. Better than one post, but not as good as two. Onto part I of our two part post...
Big Day
Yesterday was a big day for us... March 21, the first day of spring, also known as "Emma's due date." It was kind of a strange day. It was a day we looked forward to for so long, yet turned out so differently than we expected. However, we have had some great experiences over the past 4+ months, met some great people, and got to know Emma sooner. It was still hard though, especially since we had kept the due date in our mind as a date when we thought Emma might be home by.
Other than that, Emma did well yesterday. She ate when she wanted to, per her motis operendi. She gained weight (now up to 3074 grams, or 6 pounds 12.5 ounces). She looked great and was a happy baby.
Onto part II.... Sink or Swim.
Aptly titled if I say so myself.
Today the doctors decided (after Liz, the nurses and I all kept suggesting it) that we let Emma set her schedule. No more waking her every three hours to feed. No more "you have to eat X ml per feeding." And, no more feeding tube. We are disconnected (aside from the oxygen). Emma now only gets what she eats (for now... this is only a trial at this time). This morning at 8am, Emma ate 21ml... a far cry from her normal 56ml. However, Emma woke up early at 10:30 (instead of 11) and ate 46ml... that's a good sign.
We talked with the doctors, and they said that for now, they want Emma to eat at a minimum 80ml every shift (8 hours) just to keep hydrated. They'd prefer she didn't lose weight or if she actually gained, but one step at a time. Plus, this is a meds day for Emma so she'll probably lose weight. No big deal. But, the responsibility is now all on her... if she does well, she'll be home soon. If she doesn't... well, it will be harder on Liz and I than Emma.
On a side note, the Pulmonary team came to visit Emma today. I didn't stay for their visit (I do have to go to school at some point), but I'll take a look at what they found / decided later tonight. I know that they were going to reevaluate her lungs / oxygen setup and her current medication and dosage. Hopefully everything turns out well.
No pictures today (because I haven't uploaded them yet... Liz has the camera at this moment). Maybe later though...